GLOVES OFF

Trying to help my young adult find his voice as he advocate and negotiate for himself. Our children seen us in action now the gloves are off our hands, as we politely pass them on. The worries are still swirling over our head but we know its time. "Mommy" and "Papa" bear will always be around but this season is theirs to make mistakes and take some risks to feel the rush of their own accomplishments. I don't know how much he have "overheard" as I advocated for him over the years or the tone I set (if not the content) I hope I have helped him find his voice as an adult. I was never apologetic nor hostile but firmly explained what I needed. As we slowly relinquish our gloves "mommy & Papa" bear (as a tear rolled down my face) I know its time...

It's their season now---

Resounding words I've stated over the many minutes, hours, and days that still seem like yesterday. You will  enter the "world" of adulthood soon and I'lll take a back seat in your journey. You'll have to navigate the rest of your life be open to collaboration (partnerships). Other people and other people's ideas are often better than your own (sometime) use discernment and ask someone you trust for a second and sometime a third opinion. Never be quick to response pondered your thoughts with a firm, "I'll get back with you on that"  Find a group of people who challenge and inspire you, spend time with them and it will change your life. 

It's your season now---